We all like to think we had a happy childhood. Of all the things we want for our children, happiness probably tops the list.  But, it can be tough being a kid. There are moments of tears, moments your children trip and hurt themselves, and, moments they’re just plain fed up. ‘I’m bored mom!’ How many times have you heard that? We’d like to share some thoughts that five different moms shared with us.

1. Get down on your knees and talk to your kids at their height. Really. It’s amazing to look at a room from the eye level of a child. It’s a simple way to literally see things from their perspective.

2. Don’t just say ‘no’. Explain why. Sometimes it’s tempting to simply say: ‘because I said so!’ But, when you take a few seconds to explain why, you stand more chance of resonating with your child. This isn’t a new age-y sentiment to treat your child as an equal; that’s not necessarily good. It’s simply trying to talk on a rational level. Caution: This approach will not always work!

3. Tell them jokes. Sounds crazy we know. But one mom we spoke to has compiled a book of jokes just for her kids. She has a joke for every occasion. When her children are bored, concerned or sad, she lightens the mood. She tells a joke and encourages her child to tell one back. She finds her kids open up and say what’s really on their minds.

4. Do one small thing for them every day. Your children will learn they can rely on a constant love. One mom we know draws a little match stick figure on a napkin accompanied by a daily message. This goes into the child’s lunchbox. Her child loves the anticipation of seeing what mom has written every day.

5. Physically spend time with them. Be in their proximity. This is an obvious tip, but often gets overlooked. Even if they are doing their homework, sit nearby instead of being in another room. Catch up on your own reading or something. You don’t have to engage in dialogue. You can both do your own thing. But your child will enjoy knowing you are close by. And you’ll enjoy the moment too.